Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Happy Birthday, Chrissie

Happy Birthday tomorrow, Chrissie!!  Since you are an expert in making fudge frosting, I know I don't need to be there to make your cake this year!  
It was so fun to be with you a year ago. 
Boy, Mom, that is a lot of candles!!

What can we say but that you are a wonderful person, and we are so happy to know you and love you.  Yes, family is what it is all about.  We are there for each other. And you are a champ at that.                          
Enjoy your day.  Love you.




There is nothing more that parents would love to hear than that their child has a testimony of  Jesus Christ and of His Atonement for us.  
Thanks, Chrissie!!!

Chrissie sent her weekly email to Elder Heflin, 
her missionary son, on 29 March 2015:

“I have thought about you a lot today
as I ponder on this date 3 years ago – your transplant day.
I am grateful for the gift of Preston being a match for you.
I am thankful that you handled that time as well as you did!
I am so thankful that we had so much time together.   Not many 16 year olds get to "hang out" with their moms like that :)       I learned much from you!

“You have made it through a lot of adversity and I hope you will never forget the closeness you felt with your Savior during a time of uncertainty and suffering.
I am reminded often that Christ suffered that pain already.
He knew what that was like for you.    For me.     For our whole family.    Wow. He loves us so much!

“I am so proud of the positive person you are
that always looks forward and is full of faith.

Keep that attitude throughout your life
and the remembrance of your Savior's love for you!
It will bless you!

I love you! Have a wonderful week!! Enjoy it!!! :)
Love, Mom”
Bryant and Chrissie watching Preston's track meet


Jose A Teixeira, “Seeking the Lord” April General Conference 2015
“I know by personal experience that the joy of living in righteousness and abiding in Christ can continue despite the tribulations characteristic of mortality. Ultimately, these tribulations often enrich, refine, and guide us to a deeper understanding of the purpose of our existence here in mortality and of the Atonement of Jesus Christ.  Indeed, the fulness of joy can only be achieved through Jesus Christ.”
"Who touched me?"

  

A message to missionaries and to us all:   https://youtu.be/Gd30i48a3do

Wednesday, May 13, 2015

May Days



Friday, 1 May:  Labor Day (National Holiday) – no workers or supervisors, only a guard at the Cementerio; so we had the day off.  All stores and public services were closed, so there were very few buses running and the streets were all quiet except for a big flea market set up on Avenida Argentina.  We and the Smiths, our daily work buddies from Boise, took a trip at 1 pm to get some exercise on the paths near the Playa Ancha area – the south side of the bay.  It was an enjoyable time and we saw beautiful new views of the ocean slamming against rocks below.  



 

Later that night, we went over to the apartment of  the Schramms from North Carolina.  He is serving as Counselor in the Mission Presidency and she as a Stake YW leader.  They have recently been further assigned to strengthen the Valparaíso District.  We met there a new senior couple recently arrived from North Farmington - the Poulsens.  She is handling the medical appointments in the office, and he is in charge of the apartments.  As a young sister, she served in the Argentina South Mission, and he served in Washington, DC.  So HE is learning the language...!!  We walked, had ice cream and took an ascensor up to see some of the murals of the Museo a Cielo Abierto. 


Sunday, 3 May:  After a nice Fast Meeting, the adults all spent two hours with a (visiting) counselor in the Presidency of the Santiago Temple.  Favorite scripture he used:  D&C 20:33-34. …take heed and pray always, lest [you] fall into temptation.  Yea, and even let those who are sanctified take heed also. 

Monday, 4 May:  The Secretario of the mission asked us to come to the mission office in Viña to make some more progress on obtaining our foreign resident identification card (carnet).  We got back to work for only 2-hours of record capturing. 


Tuesday, 5 May:  Zone Leaders called us to a replica of the Leaders Training .  Be at the Stake Center at 8:30 am.  Over at 2 pm, and we then rode our first trolebuse back to the cementerio.  Since trolebuses are not able to head up the cerros, this was our first opportunity to catch transportation on the plano (flat strip of land by the bay). 


Wednesday and Thursday, 6 &7 May:  Finally, full work days….  


Friday, 8 May:  District Meeting for 3 hours in between work.  Change of 1 Elder.  All are dedicated, super missionaries.

Saturday, 9 May:  Today is our P-Day, and we and the Smiths got onto the Valpo Metro at its end-of-the-line stop in Valpo (near Sotomayor Square),
and rode it through Viña and north for about 45 minutes to the other end-of-the-line.  It did not go up a coastal route as the buses do, but went northeast off the coast and north through a few little towns – ending in Limache.  The change in scenery was big as we went from coastal palms and pines to desert hills covered with a mesquite variety and a cholla cactus variety.
  It reminded us of Arizona!!  We walked down the main street of Limache and the changes were big. A way slower pace than Valpo, with hardly any traffic and only a handful of sidewalk vendors.  No hustle – no bustle.  We walked to the main town square, soaked up the warm sun, found a good ice cream shop, re-boarded the Metro, and coasted on back down to Valpo.  One of the highlights was to be entertained by guitar players and singers who would serenade our car for 3 or 4 stops, and then pass the hat for “voluntary contributions”.  Some were better than others. …  Then back to pelicans and waves.
 

Sunday, 10 May 2015:  Mother’s Day in the mission.
  A baptism of a 17-year-old new M.M.J.J. (YW).  Sweet special numbers by 4 of the youth.  They asked Dad to accompany them on the computer (we have no pianist, so he plays accompaniment music for the hymns on our computer for Sacrament Meeting.  The H.H.J.J. and the M.M.J.J. call him the “Ward DJ”).  After church, the Smiths had us over for dinner across the hall.  They have about a month left in the mission, and Sister Smith is really ready to be home already with her grands.  We were also joined by the Schramms.   They will also complete their mission and return on the same flight as the Smiths back to the good ol’ USA.  Good group – good spirit.

Monday and Tuesday, 11 and 12 May 2015:  Back to work!!!
  Another adventure on the crowded, noisy micros.  We are always playing musical chairs, giving up our seats to someone who needs it more. 
Note the sign in the window:  It’s blurry, but you may notice the Spanish name for “pregnant” is embarazada!  All (teenagers included) are very courteous!!

Wednesday, 13 May 2015:  As we trek in the cold and dark to the bus stop to work today with District Meeting scheduled in between, I was remembering the warm weather and our swimming pool (cement tank) our Dad built in our backyard in St. David, Arizona.  We loved to swim and eat outside in May and all through summer.  We would walk along the sides of the pool which were about 6 feet above ground, and sing: “I was walking in the park one day – in the merry, merry month of May.  I was taken by surprise by…”   AND THEN, we would fall into our pool, laughing and laughing.  And then do it again….   Great fun!!

 Remembering our fun Dad on his birthday today.


 

Family is what it is all about.

Friday, April 24, 2015

Happy Birthday Anna

April 24, 2015

Dear Anna,

Happy Birthday tomorrow!!  We have really enjoyed your 10-day Birthday Countdown to the 25th.
Amazing Anna!!
  We learned that – when you grow up, you want to be:  
an artist /scientist/mom/president/happy.  That is so great!!!
And that your favorite people in the whole world are:  President Monson and your family. 
That is so cool!!!!
Happy gal!!
We already knew that you received the “Sportsmanship and Fairness Award” at school, can memorize well, enjoyed being in “The Little Mermaid” AND that you like to Smile!!  We loved every picture of your countdown because you had so many beautiful smiles.
As Grandpa always says, “Stand Tall and Smile” (Make them wonder what your’re up to).  But I say, “Just Keep Smiling!!  You may never know how much that shining smile of yours will help others”!!!
Look at those smiles!!
 
We love you Anna.  Have a great 10th year….

President Monson is one of our favorite people in the whole world as well.  In the April 2015 General Conference, President Monson said: 
v  Let us learn of Him 
v  Let us follow in His footsteps 
v  Let us live by His precepts

President Monson’s words (that we have tried to follow since we heard President Monson invite us) in the April 2014 General Conference were:
“As we arise each morning, let us determine to respond with love and kindness to whatever might come our way.”
His talk was entitled LOVE, THE ESSENCE OF THE GOSPEL, and he gave a quote from Dale Carnegie, a well-known American author and lecturer…"Perhaps you will forget tomorrow the kind words you say today, but the recipient may cherish them over a lifetime" – (Dale Carnegie, in, for example, Larry Chang, "Wisdom for the Soul (2006), 54).

“Smiles” are radiating love. Here are some words about love that Elder Heflin sent home in his email this last February: "Missionary work has been a ton of fun lately because we've been making it fun! I dunno, it just doesn't even feel like work anymore. It's what God wants us to do and once we find our footing, he makes it pure happiness. So, I'm really really thankful for that. So life's pretty great.  But that's what the love this gospel brings is. And it's a two way street! When we love God, he lets us feel loved back. That's what's awesome about it.

“I recently re-discovered this scripture that says, ‘Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.’ (John 15:13). At first I thought that by ‘laying down his life’ it meant that we have to die to show the greatest kind of love that we can offer to God, but in actuality what it's saying here is "Hey, if you give your life to God and consecrate yourself to Him and His work, then you are expressing the greatest form of love."

“It goes back to the old saying, "…He that loseth his life for my sake, shall find it" (Matthew 10:39). What I'm learning here right now is that by ‘finding it' Christ might also be saying that we get an enormous amount of love and happiness in our own life in return for us consecrating ourselves.  Basically, all that we desire (being righteous, of course. Duh) will be ours, if we give ourselves to this work.”

This is true wisdom.  Elder Heflin has great thoughts from studying the scriptures, and we have learned from and appreciated his insight ever since.  Having that love will bring happiness.
We miss being there for all the events going on in your lives.
 
We wanted to be there for Ivy and Kevin, but they understood.... 
More art around Valparaíso


We decided to wait for another bus....

We're busy observing life and working hard.  More records that needed preserving!!
We had another ward trip to the Santiago Temple with the youth also doing baptisms.
Elder Smith took this picture of the big thunderstorm that caused problems in Antofogasta.
  The Church members rallied to help and are still helping.
We have about 17 Loros at the Cementerio.  This close-up was also taken by Elder Smith
We enjoyed a carriage ride in Viña with the Schramms and Smiths.  The autumn leaves were beautiful.
View from the Daniels' house in Reñaca.  Jennifer fixed an amazing dinner and invited Smiths and us to honor her husband's 40th birthday. 


Thanks family for all your love, support and smiles.  

Love you all,


Grandpa and Grandma (and Mom and Dad)



Wednesday, April 8, 2015

Happy Birthday Macy and Becky

9 April 2015

Happy Birthday Macy (and Becky coming up!!)

Dear Macy,  You are a cutie!!  We love to hear about all the fun things you are doing.
Macy with her Dad

Macy's Adventures
 Your family is always doing fun things.  You have two neat sisters and a terrific brother.  What a lucky sweetheart.  Keep up all those sweet things that make us all marvel.
Being two is terrific – so have a terrific time being 2!!

Macy, when your Mom was two years old – her Dad would sometimes play the guitar and sing this song:
Where are you going, my little one, little one,
Where are you going, my baby, my own?
Turn around and you’re two,
Turn around and you’re four,
Turn around and you’re a young girl going out the door.

And your Mom would turn around and around – while he sang the words.

Then the second verse:
…Turn around and you’re tiny,
Turn around and you’re grown,
Turn around and you’re a young wife with babes of her own….

Becky when living at Ft. Ord, California 

Becky is two years old!
So, Happy Birthday to that gal that turned around and around and has babes of her own!  We always had the joke that I was at Mother’s Week at Ricks or at a Relief Society event on your birthday – but you survived.  You are a sweetheart too!!  Thanks for all you do for your family and for all of us.  Love you, Becky.  Have a great day on the 20th.  

Lately, we have enjoyed watching the videos in Gospel Library in español.  You might enjoy this one:  Go into “Settings” choose “content Spanish” then “Videos” then “Bible Videos:  The Life of Jesus Christ” then choose: Dejad a los niños venir a mí.  Enjoy!!

3 Nephi 11:38…and become as a little child, or ye can in nowise inherit the kingdom of God.  (become…like children in obedience, truthfulness, trustfulness, purity, humility and faith.  Jesus the Christ by James E. Talmage, pg 359).

Our Zone Training was Tuesday of this week on “humility” and “virtue” from PMG.  The next day we had interviews with President.  Last Sunday, we enjoyed General Conference in English with the American Elders and Sisters of the Valparaíso Zone. Some who were “old” in the mission would head in to the chapel when the Spanish speakers were to speak. 

  
We had a wonderful Easter 2015.  And as President Uchtdorf said, “That first Easter Sunday was “…the day that changed everything!”
How grateful we are for that Great Atoning Sacrifice and for the Resurrection of Jesus Christ.  He lives!


Sunday, March 22, 2015

Happy Birthday, Tessa


Dear Tessa,

Whether your hair is long or short, curly or crazy, we love you.  Have a super birthday on Tuesday. 

Hope your week is super too!!  Grandpa says he would like to walk to school with you and your friends.  I miss the fun things there are to do at your home.  Remember the picture you gave us to see if we would notice that your Mom was holding a baby and you were announcing that your family was going to grow from 5 to 6?  And now Macy is soon going to be 2.  Wow,  time passes quickly. 
  

We have a new idea for a school project that would be similar to your catapult.  How did that go, by the way?  Our idea is that you could build an ascensor.  We are including a picture of one for you to see.  Since you enjoy art and piano, we are also including some pictures from Valparaíso.  We noticed that Drew wants to learn about Chile and has a few misconceptions about it.  Since you also would like to be a teacher like your Nana and Tiffany, we thought we could also provide some pictures so that you could teach Drew about Chile.  So here goes:

Tessa is a TEACHER
SS = RS  (Sociedad de Socorro [Soc. Soc.] = Relief  Society)
Whether you are in the United States or in Chile, they always celebrate the founding of the Relief Society around this time.  


mantequilla = butter
pan = bread or rolls
uvas = grapes
pepinos = cucumbers
Grandpa’s favorite cereal = chocolate granola  


We just finished summer and are starting to see leaves begin to fall (otoño) = you are seeing hints of Springtime.  

Tessa likes to play the PIANO
There are some Piano Stairs in Valparaíso on Pasaje (passage) Beethoven which go up to the Lutheran Church (the first Protestant church in South America to be allowed a steeple and bell tower).  

Where we work at the cemetery is on Cerro Panteón.  We can look across to the next cerro (hill) (Cerro Concepción) and see the piano steps and the church.  



To get to that hill, we need to climb stairs or take an ascensor.   


Tessa likes ART
On our walk to the cemetery, many of the electrical poles are painted.  The plaza stop at the top has very pretty mosaic tiles of hearts.   




The prelude music for Sacrament Meeting had the beautiful Primary song that brought the words running through my mind: 
What does the Father ask of us?
What do the scriptures say?
Have faith, have hope, live like His Son
Help others on their way.
What does He ask?
Live like His Son.

You are good at that “help others on their way…”.  Way to go.  We are all trying to do that.  Love you, Tessa.  Love you all.



Saturday, March 14, 2015

Happy Birthday, Birthday Buddy, Bryce

14 March 2015

Dear Bryce,

We are thinking of you today.  You are Grandma’s birthday buddy.  Oh, how we would like to sit down with a new 5-year old and have a chat.  To see how things are.  To see what you think.  To learn what you have been doing since you moved to Texas.  We miss going on hikes with you up the mountain behind our house in Las Vegas.  We miss going to the park and hitting the baseball or throwing the Frisbee or watching you and Clark on the slides, swings and climbers.  We miss going to the soccer and basketball games.


Grandpa says that you and I have our birthday at a very fun time when there is so much great basketball to watch – March Madness!!  Just last year we were in Las Vegas watching the UofA play in the tournament.  What a fun time that was!  What fun times are you liking the most? What is your favorite “standing quote”?  When you are ready, we would love to hear it.  It was so fun to hear Anna with such a long recitation.  We thought she and Eve looked so beautiful in their performance of The Little Mermaid. 
Have fun supporting your siblings in their activities and in your own.  Have a super year, Bryce!!! 
Love, Grandpa and Grandma Gibson

And Happy Birthday to you Will, on the 21st.  
We enjoyed your birthday cake in your home in Henderson just a year ago.  And now with your hard work and diligence, you have done well to make in all happen so well for your family in Texas.  All look happy and excelling.  Celebrate!! We will be completing our reading of The Book of Mormon and El Libro de Mormón at the end of March.  We were to compare and read both and note where each person first appeared, of commandments, miracles and diligence.  In the reading there was often used much of justice (la justicia), righteous judgments (juicios justos), etc.  So curious when Alma counseled all three of his sons to “…be sober, my sons…” and the translator used the word “juicioso” for two of them instead of the word “serios”. (Alma 37:47 and 38:15). So different from so many other places such as when King Benjamin said, “…teach children to walk in ways of truth and soberness. (de la verdad y la seriedad) Mosiah 4:15.”  So interesting to compare the BoM with the LdM!!
On Wednesday of this week, we had our Zone Conference.  President gave training given him by our Area Leaders: Elders Vinas, Gonzales, Zeballos and Soares. 
We were asked to elevate our spirituality.  We were taught from the Guide to the Scriptures about humility.  Our reading of the LdM beginning in April will be to answer the question of our soul.  President said this will be one of the hardest readings as we give it an exhaustive seeking.  By reaching with a real intent to change will allow the Spirit full access to our heart and mind.  And as Elder Bednar says…. “we will be blessed with spiritual traction…” and not a true quote but something by President from Elder Bednar: “Correct character (like Christ’s) is to detect and respond to others while we are suffering with our own problems.” All the missionaries in the Zone were asked to come prepared with a short talk on “What promise am I going to make to demonstrate my love for Christ this year?”  The first person called up was Hermana Gibson – me – and asked to bear my testimony.  From my preparation, I had a quote from Elder Corbridge, May Ensign pg 105.  “More than having a mere passive belief in Christ, we should
·         “look unto [Him] in every thought D&C 6:36
·         do all that [we do] in the name of the son Moses 5:8
·         and “always remember him and keep his commandments…that [we] may always have his spirit to be with [us]. D&C20:77
 “Missionary work is all about gathering people out of the world, ennobling them and enabling them eventually to dwell with God forever.  This is His divine desire.  Our loving Heavenly Father wants His children to return home to him.  How logical is that?  What else would you expect from a loving father….Missionaries have a solemn responsibility to act on God’s fondest hope – that His children will return home to Him, and if we will help Him, He will help us”. Ensign, June 2014, Russell M. Nelson 

Friday, on the way home from the cemetery, we saw smoke towards the area where we live.  When we reached Avenida Argentina, we found traffic stopped and a fire truck heading to the rescue.
top from our balcony and below at the bus stop between our home and our chapel.
 
Sunset and smoke after RS activity at chapel and smoke at our apartment complex.  We are on 10th floor and 8 small balconies up.  You can see a dot of our brown chair on the corner of the balcony.
We attended a Relief Society activity on helping members sign-up for FamilySearch and enjoyed a cheese sandwich, drinks, grapes and figs. 

The incendio looks to be under control this morning, but it was a scary awesome view last night and hard for many who remember the gran incendio last April.