Friday, June 19, 2015

Happy Birthday, Gavin

So, Gavin, it seems you are still crazy as ever about sports.  Just remember that there are other important things in life too – like eating and breathing, oh yes, and family and church…, …and Birthdays!  We have really enjoyed seeing some of your recent exploits posted by your biggest fans - your parents.  And you are so versatile! 
Gavin is always shooting hoops night and day, loves baseball and football and is a super Arizona Fan! 
  Reminds me of me – being able to have young playing experiences in football, basketball and baseball.  And reminds me of your Uncle Brett – every spare second, he was out shooting hoops in our carport at Bluefield just like you in front of your house. Grandma’s younger brother Jim, also played those sports –  he was a pitcher for St. David HS, and recorded several “no hitters” there.  But you can’t play forever (just ask Uncle Vince!), and at some point you will have to hang up the cleats and become a Ref – I mean an Official – I mean a fan (or all of the above)!  And speaking of fans, the Copa (Cup) America is currently being played in Chile.  It is for all the countries from Mexico, Central and South America – in soccer (they call it “futbol” here).
  And yes, the fans are truly dedicated (just ask Uncle Will!).  For instance, tonight Chile played Bolivia in Santiago, and all today there were lots of street venders (sellers) selling all sorts of “fan” stuff – like hats, wigs, shirts, horns, bam sticks, etc.  Chile's colors are Red, White and Blue and the team is called "The Red" (El Rojo).
  As I write this, the game is playing, and even though we do not have a TV, we know what the score is (well, Chile’s score anyway) because every time Chile scores, we hear lots of horns, car horns, yelling and cheering from all the houses and apartments.  By the way, Chile won 5-0.  They are even having some of the games here in the Valparaiso Stadium (home of the “Santiago Wanderers” – a pro team that represents Valpo, but has the name Santiago!?)

Your Dad said it best about you when he said, “Gavin, our oldest, is such a great kid and a good example to his younger brother and sister.  He’s always willing to help out, and he may possibly love sports even more than I do—just a great kid!"  Thanks Gav, THAT is what is really important in life – just be a good person and care about others. 

So, Gavin, it is getting late, and it is important for us athletes to get good rest, so “Good night.  …and have a great 9th B-Day tomorrow!”
Love, Grandpa

Thursday, June 11, 2015

Happy Birthday, Vince

Happy Birthday tomorrow, Vince.

So, enjoy your day!!!  Will it include a trip to your favorite Mexican restaurant?  Which one will you choose? We are remembering our last trip to one of your favorites.


Summer is a fun time to have a birthday – Sports, Swimming, Scouting, Snow cones, Kettle corn (and Caramel, Caramel Cherry, White Cheddar, and….).  So much to do – and with you we know it will be a great time.  Love you very much and appreciate your service in patrolling the highways.  Thanks for being a great partner to Chris and a great Dad to your five.  The carabineros here are also doing a great job patrolling….


Here is a text to Angie when she was surprised to learn we had gone out to eat:
Mom:  We ate at a Mexican restaurant in Viña.  Dad had an enchilada and I had a chimichanga. Can you guess which is which? 
Angie: ...I'd say Mom's is on the left because there is more eaten (the faster eater).
Mom:  And you are wrong! Mom's chimichanga is on the right and Dad's enchilada is on the left.  Mine (the chimi) came late and I took the picture just after it came.... BUT I did finish first!
They tasted and were exactly the same (except folded differently)!


We are also remembering that Sonoran Supremo (?) we ate with you during ball practice last summer.  The Chileno thing to try here is the “Completo” which we have not yet tried.  It is a hot dog with a huge amount of mayo (1 to 1.5 inches of mayo) and guacamole.  The mission nurse suggests we not try street food as the mayo may have been out a little too long….   But we do like to sometimes pick up after a long day at work, a couple of empanadas where we get off the bus to head back home. The Napolitana empanada is a ham and cheese one and the Pino is more like a seasoned hamburger meat with half a hard-boiled egg and an olive (with pit).

Geff wrote this in his last letter to Grandpa: 
“So,  Q: 'What’s the happenings? (i.e. ¿Qué Pasa?)'  here in Valpo last week?  
A: 'Not much out of the ordinary.'  Everything went according to plan and according to schedule.  Like the Swiss trains.  We work such a 9 – 5 job.  But every so often we pinch ourselves and realize that this place is not what one would call “normal” at all.  So, what is different?  Thrill rides on the micro buses – the lack of road rage considering all the crazy moves – jugglers performing for traffic stopped at intersections...
- sidewalk vendors covering the sidewalks with their wares (everything) – the big street market that magically appears on Avenida Argentina every Wed and weekend – empanadas - all the creative murals on every available vertical surface – all the graffiti that covers all but a few of the most impressive murals which are recognized as such by their being spared  that graffiti layer – the oldness – the newness – the bay – the carabineros strolling the sidewalks just to keep everyone honest – the many barking (all night long) dogs - houses built on almost vertical hillsides - cool breezes and warm sun and thick fog – and the friendly and accommodating people.  We hear that there is a lot of robbery in certain parts, but we must never be in those spots.  We know we are feeling at home here, especially when we see these “happenings” and take it all for granted!...”.

But actually, this week we have had several protests.  The carabineros (Geff respectfully calls them “carbs”) have been out in extra force with streets blocked causing the buses to head up different streets to get us to the cemetery….

these vans/paddy wagons/water cannons have metal mesh grates protecting the windows and lights


We took a bus to Viña del Mar one Saturday to stroll up and around Cerro Castillo (Castle Hill).   One of the most impressive castles is the Palacio Brunet (also known as "Castillo Yarur") which was built in 1923 by Adolfo Brunet. It is now owned by the Carabineros de Chile (Chilean police) and is used as a reception center for important visitors because the presidential summer residence, Castillo Presidencial (Presidential Castle), is nearby.  You really are not able to see any of the Chilean Presidents’ home, but Elder Smith checked in with the gate guard to make sure we could take a picture of the unpretentious side street entrance which is shown top left below, and the other three are of Palacio Brunet.
  
So, Vince, you can sleep well, knowing that we are protected down here by your cousins the carbs.
...and in the famous words of Elder Heflin: "Thanks a ton!!"










Saturday, June 6, 2015

Actividad de Barrio


After a day of Zone Conference, we attended our ward’s big activity.  The ward members worked hard to make it a wonderful night.  There was “shoot a basket with your back to the hoop” basketball, ping pong, darts, egg on spoon and then grab balloon and pop it on a chair, fish pond, kick the soccer ball to knock over bowling pins, jump rope, rope tug-a-war, toss ping pong balls into stacked cups, and a table to receive a treat with tokens you received as you participated.  The gran finale was the judging of postres (desserts) by the judges, and Hermana Smith took first place with her chocolate and caramel cake.  A good time was had by all.  All declared it a success!!





Conferencia de Zona


Friday, 29 May, was an entire day away from the Cementerio as we attended our Zone Conference – the last we will have with President Kähnlein.  His oldest son, Ignacio (14) was also able to be with us.  A wonderful family!!  Hermana Kähnlein has been a great Mom to so many more than her four!  She is seated in yellow jacket between husband and son below. We will welcome a new President in July.  But for now we will just say what a great work our current president has accomplished.  Always positive, working with each elder and hermana, and posing good challenges and goals…..


Valparaíso Zone

A great day of training.  Elder and Hermana Poulson were there.  They encouraged us to be healthy and keep our apartments clean.  Elder Poulson taught all how to clean and exercise at the same time.
  
President and Hermana Kähnlein trained us and inspired.  We definitely felt their love. They knew this was their last time to bring us counsel.  President gave us much "Que Quiero de Ustedes" and presented "La Ultima Leccíon"   https://youtu.be/J492IbRge24  

A wonderful day.  Our District sang a beautiful version of:
Yo trato de ser como Cristo  (I’m Trying the to Be Like Jesus)

1. Yo trato de ser como Cristo
y hacer lo que hizo Él.
El mismo amor que Él mostró
yo quiero mostrar también.
Me tienta a veces el mal a obrar,
mas la voz del Espíritu me empieza a hablar.
Dice:

“Love one another as Jesus loves you.
Try to show kindness in all that you do.
Be gentle and loving in deed and in thought,
For these are the things Jesus taught.”

2. I’m trying to love my neighbor;
y al prójimo con amor.
I watch for the day of gladness
de Cristo mi Salvador.
I try to remember the lessons he taught.
la voz de su Espíritu le habla a mi corazón:

(Divide group and sing chorus in both Spanish and EnglishJ
“Ama a otros cual Cristo te ama.             “Love one another as Jesus loves you.
Sé bondadoso y tierno y fiel.                    Try to show kindness in all that you do.
Pues esto es lo que Jesús nos enseña”.     Be gentle and loving in deed & thought,         
Yo quiero seguirlo a Él."                          For these are the things Jesus taught.”
Sing all together:  Yo quiero seguirlo a Él.


Letra y música: Janice Kapp Perry, n. 1938.  © 1980 por Janice Kapp Perry. Se pueden hacer copias de esta canción para usarlas en la Iglesia o en el hogar, siempre que no sea con fines de lucro.



Our Days

A beautiful moon as we headed down the Cerro and onto Avenida Argentina on our morning trip to the cementerio.... 

After getting off the micro bus to walk to Plaza Aníbal Pinto,

then up the hill and up the 99 steps we saw a beautiful display of clouds....

Then greeted by a beautiful view of the bay at sunrise....

Now inside a darkened room for our days' task.  We thought of all our grandchildren with these books, because we had four sizes of  a document we call a "Tess" (short for "Tesoreria").  Thanks Tessa for reminding us of all our fun grands!!

We celebrated birthdays/anniversaries and farewells with Elders and Hermanas Smith and Schramms on the 5th.
 Thinking of all family with birthdays in June:  Kim Permann on the 6th, 
Terrie Gibson and Mary Shaw on 7th, Amelia Smith and Vince Heflin on the 12th, Brittany Merrill on the 13th.  
My Mother, Nellie, taken on 6 June 1936 and her sweet Mother, Gertrude Arzberger, at the Ranch with her son, Gus,
 and calf, Julie 
  Nellie Merrill, my mother, was born on 9 June, 1914.  Her mother was born 14 June, 1883.  Gertrude and her husband, Frederick William Arzberger, left Kansas and came to homestead in Arizona, arriving by train on her birthday in 1909 ready to begin a new life as a settler in Kansas Settlement, Arizona.  They came with their two children landing in Willcox on Sunday morning June 14th, 1909 at sunrise. 


Sunrise, sunset    Sunrise,sunset   Swiftly fly the years…. 





Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Happy Birthday, Chrissie

Happy Birthday tomorrow, Chrissie!!  Since you are an expert in making fudge frosting, I know I don't need to be there to make your cake this year!  
It was so fun to be with you a year ago. 
Boy, Mom, that is a lot of candles!!

What can we say but that you are a wonderful person, and we are so happy to know you and love you.  Yes, family is what it is all about.  We are there for each other. And you are a champ at that.                          
Enjoy your day.  Love you.




There is nothing more that parents would love to hear than that their child has a testimony of  Jesus Christ and of His Atonement for us.  
Thanks, Chrissie!!!

Chrissie sent her weekly email to Elder Heflin, 
her missionary son, on 29 March 2015:

“I have thought about you a lot today
as I ponder on this date 3 years ago – your transplant day.
I am grateful for the gift of Preston being a match for you.
I am thankful that you handled that time as well as you did!
I am so thankful that we had so much time together.   Not many 16 year olds get to "hang out" with their moms like that :)       I learned much from you!

“You have made it through a lot of adversity and I hope you will never forget the closeness you felt with your Savior during a time of uncertainty and suffering.
I am reminded often that Christ suffered that pain already.
He knew what that was like for you.    For me.     For our whole family.    Wow. He loves us so much!

“I am so proud of the positive person you are
that always looks forward and is full of faith.

Keep that attitude throughout your life
and the remembrance of your Savior's love for you!
It will bless you!

I love you! Have a wonderful week!! Enjoy it!!! :)
Love, Mom”
Bryant and Chrissie watching Preston's track meet


Jose A Teixeira, “Seeking the Lord” April General Conference 2015
“I know by personal experience that the joy of living in righteousness and abiding in Christ can continue despite the tribulations characteristic of mortality. Ultimately, these tribulations often enrich, refine, and guide us to a deeper understanding of the purpose of our existence here in mortality and of the Atonement of Jesus Christ.  Indeed, the fulness of joy can only be achieved through Jesus Christ.”
"Who touched me?"

  

A message to missionaries and to us all:   https://youtu.be/Gd30i48a3do

Wednesday, May 13, 2015

May Days



Friday, 1 May:  Labor Day (National Holiday) – no workers or supervisors, only a guard at the Cementerio; so we had the day off.  All stores and public services were closed, so there were very few buses running and the streets were all quiet except for a big flea market set up on Avenida Argentina.  We and the Smiths, our daily work buddies from Boise, took a trip at 1 pm to get some exercise on the paths near the Playa Ancha area – the south side of the bay.  It was an enjoyable time and we saw beautiful new views of the ocean slamming against rocks below.  



 

Later that night, we went over to the apartment of  the Schramms from North Carolina.  He is serving as Counselor in the Mission Presidency and she as a Stake YW leader.  They have recently been further assigned to strengthen the Valparaíso District.  We met there a new senior couple recently arrived from North Farmington - the Poulsens.  She is handling the medical appointments in the office, and he is in charge of the apartments.  As a young sister, she served in the Argentina South Mission, and he served in Washington, DC.  So HE is learning the language...!!  We walked, had ice cream and took an ascensor up to see some of the murals of the Museo a Cielo Abierto. 


Sunday, 3 May:  After a nice Fast Meeting, the adults all spent two hours with a (visiting) counselor in the Presidency of the Santiago Temple.  Favorite scripture he used:  D&C 20:33-34. …take heed and pray always, lest [you] fall into temptation.  Yea, and even let those who are sanctified take heed also. 

Monday, 4 May:  The Secretario of the mission asked us to come to the mission office in Viña to make some more progress on obtaining our foreign resident identification card (carnet).  We got back to work for only 2-hours of record capturing. 


Tuesday, 5 May:  Zone Leaders called us to a replica of the Leaders Training .  Be at the Stake Center at 8:30 am.  Over at 2 pm, and we then rode our first trolebuse back to the cementerio.  Since trolebuses are not able to head up the cerros, this was our first opportunity to catch transportation on the plano (flat strip of land by the bay). 


Wednesday and Thursday, 6 &7 May:  Finally, full work days….  


Friday, 8 May:  District Meeting for 3 hours in between work.  Change of 1 Elder.  All are dedicated, super missionaries.

Saturday, 9 May:  Today is our P-Day, and we and the Smiths got onto the Valpo Metro at its end-of-the-line stop in Valpo (near Sotomayor Square),
and rode it through Viña and north for about 45 minutes to the other end-of-the-line.  It did not go up a coastal route as the buses do, but went northeast off the coast and north through a few little towns – ending in Limache.  The change in scenery was big as we went from coastal palms and pines to desert hills covered with a mesquite variety and a cholla cactus variety.
  It reminded us of Arizona!!  We walked down the main street of Limache and the changes were big. A way slower pace than Valpo, with hardly any traffic and only a handful of sidewalk vendors.  No hustle – no bustle.  We walked to the main town square, soaked up the warm sun, found a good ice cream shop, re-boarded the Metro, and coasted on back down to Valpo.  One of the highlights was to be entertained by guitar players and singers who would serenade our car for 3 or 4 stops, and then pass the hat for “voluntary contributions”.  Some were better than others. …  Then back to pelicans and waves.
 

Sunday, 10 May 2015:  Mother’s Day in the mission.
  A baptism of a 17-year-old new M.M.J.J. (YW).  Sweet special numbers by 4 of the youth.  They asked Dad to accompany them on the computer (we have no pianist, so he plays accompaniment music for the hymns on our computer for Sacrament Meeting.  The H.H.J.J. and the M.M.J.J. call him the “Ward DJ”).  After church, the Smiths had us over for dinner across the hall.  They have about a month left in the mission, and Sister Smith is really ready to be home already with her grands.  We were also joined by the Schramms.   They will also complete their mission and return on the same flight as the Smiths back to the good ol’ USA.  Good group – good spirit.

Monday and Tuesday, 11 and 12 May 2015:  Back to work!!!
  Another adventure on the crowded, noisy micros.  We are always playing musical chairs, giving up our seats to someone who needs it more. 
Note the sign in the window:  It’s blurry, but you may notice the Spanish name for “pregnant” is embarazada!  All (teenagers included) are very courteous!!

Wednesday, 13 May 2015:  As we trek in the cold and dark to the bus stop to work today with District Meeting scheduled in between, I was remembering the warm weather and our swimming pool (cement tank) our Dad built in our backyard in St. David, Arizona.  We loved to swim and eat outside in May and all through summer.  We would walk along the sides of the pool which were about 6 feet above ground, and sing: “I was walking in the park one day – in the merry, merry month of May.  I was taken by surprise by…”   AND THEN, we would fall into our pool, laughing and laughing.  And then do it again….   Great fun!!

 Remembering our fun Dad on his birthday today.


 

Family is what it is all about.